It sounds like you’re in a really tough spot, and it’s understandable that you’re feeling overwhelmed. Let’s clarify your SNAP and Medicaid eligibility in Indiana and how to get help with the paperwork.

SNAP (Food Stamps) Eligibility for Yourself in Indiana:

In Indiana, SNAP eligibility is primarily based on your current household income and resources. 1 Since your children live with their mother and you are living separately, you would likely be considered your own separate SNAP household.  
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FSSA: DFR: Do I Qualify for SNAP – IN.gov

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This means that when you apply for SNAP for yourself in Indiana, the Family and Social Services Administration (FSSA) will primarily look at your income and resources alone to determine your eligibility. Your ex-wife’s income and resources would generally not be counted.

Therefore, given that you are currently jobless and have lost your home, you may very well be eligible for SNAP benefits based on your individual circumstances. The previous denial you experienced might have been based on different circumstances or an incorrect assessment at that time. It is crucial that you reapply now based on your current situation.

Indiana SNAP Income and Asset Limits (Effective October 1, 2024 – September 30, 2025):

Gross Monthly Income Limits (130% of Federal Poverty Level):
1 person: $1,632
These limits increase with household size.
Net Monthly Income Limits (100% of Federal Poverty Level):
1 person: $1,255
These limits also increase with household size.
Asset Limits:
For households without a member age 60 or older or who is disabled: $3,000
For households with a member age 60 or older or who is disabled: $4,500
Since you are applying for yourself, the one-person income and asset limits will apply to your case.

Medicaid Eligibility in Indiana:

Medicaid eligibility in Indiana has different requirements than SNAP, focusing on factors like income, age, disability status, and family situation. Your current lack of income due to job loss may make you eligible for certain Medicaid programs. You will need to apply for Medicaid separately through the FSSA to determine your eligibility. Your ex-wife’s situation would not typically affect your individual Medicaid eligibility.

Assistance with Paperwork:

It is absolutely permissible for a family member or another trusted individual to help you with filling out the paperwork for SNAP and Medicaid in Indiana. Here’s what you need to do to make that allowable:

Express Your Consent: When you apply, clearly state to the FSSA caseworker that you have authorized this person to assist you with the application process and to receive information on your behalf.
During the Interview: If you have an interview (which is usually required), you can have your family member present with you, either in person or on the phone, to help you understand the questions and provide information.
Authorization Forms (If Necessary): While not always required for initial assistance, the FSSA might have specific “Authorization to Release Information” forms if you want your family member to have ongoing access to your case details or act as your authorized representative. Ask your caseworker if such a form is needed.
Verbal Consent: Often, a clear verbal statement from you to the caseworker that you authorize your family member’s assistance is sufficient, especially in the beginning.
Steps to Take Now in Indiana:

Apply for SNAP Immediately: The quickest and easiest way to apply for SNAP in Indiana is online through the Indiana Family & Social Services Administration (FSSA) Benefits Portal: https://fssabenefits.in.gov. You can also apply in person at your local Division of Family Resources (DFR) office or by mail.
Apply for Medicaid: Apply for Medicaid through the same Indiana FSSA Benefits Portal or by contacting your local DFR office.
Seek Help with Paperwork: Ask your trusted family member to sit with you and assist you with the online application or the paper forms. Their support can make a significant difference.
Be Prepared for an Interview: After submitting your applications, the FSSA will likely schedule an interview with you to review your information. Have your family member present for support if needed.
Gather Documentation: Start collecting any documents you might have, such as proof of identity (driver’s license, state ID), any mail showing your current (even temporary) address, and your Social Security number.
Contact 2-1-1: Call 2-1-1 in Indiana. This helpline can connect you with various social services in your area, including emergency housing options, food pantries, and other resources to help you while your SNAP and Medicaid applications are being processed.
Consider Local Resources: Contact local food banks or community assistance programs. They may be able to provide immediate food assistance while you are waiting for SNAP benefits. Gleaners Food Bank of Indiana (317-925-0191) and the Foodbank of Northwest Indiana (219-980-1777 ext. 306) are examples of organizations that may offer assistance with SNAP applications and food resources.
Remember to be honest and provide accurate information in your applications. Your current circumstances of being jobless and facing housing instability should be the primary factors in determining your eligibility for assistance. Don’t let past experiences prevent you from applying again and seeking the help you need. Lean on your support system and utilize the resources available in Indiana.